Obvious commitment issues combined with a narcissistic personality.
    We met in the summer at work, he was the new guy who quickly became my friend. I was going through a divorce and having been there himself, he had quite a bit of advice to offer. Our friendship quickly grew into a romantic relationship. He has two children as do I and to me it seemed the perfect match. He said all of the right things, told me he loved me and couldn't wait for us to move in together and start our future, and being blinded by love I ignored the obvious signs of him fooling around, like the racy text messages from other chicks or the letter that was found in his briefcase. Then Valentines Day came and I got a text message from him saying that "we needed to take a break" and that we could still be "friends"... And as much as I tried to distance myself from him from that point on he still continuoulsy sends me text messages and calls me telling me how much he misses me and yet he is already sleeping with someone else...oh wait...he was sleeping with her before we broke up...according to her...nice hu?
    We met at work, he was the "new guy" who caught my eye.
    Right now the only thing he will be remembered for is his total disregard for anyones feelings but his own.
    I will miss the things I thought were real, the soft touch on my cheek and that wickedly handsom smile...and most of all I will miss the future that I thought we were going to have.
    The lies, the inconsitant stories...wondering where he was when he was supposed to be with me.
    I would smile and walk past him as if he were a total stranger...because that is exactly what he has become.
    I thought I knew him, he seemed so genuine and honest and seeing him now for who he really is, is terribly dissappointing.
    I am the only survivor, although being able to survive it, doesn't mean that it was ever ok.
    You had something wonderful, a smart, articulate, sexy woman who would have done anything for you...and you let it go for something less than mediocre...what a pity.